I am the adult child of a sociopath parent. Until now I have been satisfied in my search for kindred spirits by lurking on blog's of others and chiming in there when I wanted to be heard. There are many blog's from Acon's that are very well done and I felt no need to reinvent the wheel. What I have not found on many sites is the sense of outrage that we as humans should be feeling when our lives or the lives of loved ones are irrevocable damaged by these people. The blog creators exude this sense of injustice from every pore. But posters from the lessor personality disordered dilute the magnitude of the sickness some of us have endured and it isn't right. I don't know if people are sand bagging their experience, or that a mother wanting to lord over a daughters wedding to pick out china patterns is life shattering.
Without diminishing what others have experienced, I would like to create a safe haven for those of us that have had to deal with someone that is truly a sociopath. Some of us have been forced to live with a sickness and evil so pure that it is impossible for others...even the children of the personality disordered to conceive. My attempts to broaden the spectrum of this evil light on other sites, is met with skepticism and indifference. I am sure that the members there have taken on the traits of the disordered and want to make each and every interaction a contest. I would make this a safe place for others to come and share their worst with no fear of having their experience diminished, discounted, or disbelieved. My mother really out did her self on the personality disordered front. She shot past narcissistic personality disorder and is right up in contention as queen of the sociopath's.
She was involved in a murder in the sixties and drove my father to suicide in the seventies.
She says she has never done a single solitary thing in her life that is reprehensible or illegal. I disclaim not in the name of a pissing contest. But to let you know that judgment is something you will not find from me. Not from me and not here. If any one out there have walled themselves off for fear of being ostracized ..you will find no judgment here. You are in a safe place to speak.