Thursday, August 16, 2012

After Narcissistic Supply.






Ralph Waldo Emerson once said. "The louder he talked of his honor, the faster we counted our spoons."
 It's hard enough to gauge a person's character when the two of you are in the same room. People can be  such masters of deception that you could fall for just about anything. So think about the abundant opportunities the internet provides for disordered freaks to become anything they want, whenever they want.
Who would do this?
 I can't tell you. I don't know if personality disordered people know they are disordered. Or if they just do what they do and find themselves where they find themselves. Like water seeking its own level.
Some are more transparent than others.
Some are never found out.
But this one here is the lollapalooza of bat shit loons. This is straight out of the " I am not really a healing type chick. I am really the morbidly obese guy you saw on the Discovery channel that had to be surgically separated from my couch and winched out through a hole in the roof that firemen cut with a chain saw and now I have nothing better to do until they preform the surgery to cut off all the folds of loose flesh after I lose the projected 686 pounds to be at my target weight" files.


There is nothing wrong with your monitor. Do not attempt to adjust the picture. Michelle controls transmission. If you want volume, Michelle will give you volume. If you want it softer, Michelle will make it softer. Michelle controls the horizontal. Michelle controls the vertical. She will make it shake, rattle, and roll. If she wants you to be shaken, rattled, and rolled. Sit quietly while she controls all that you see and hear. Get ready to participate in a great adventure. You are about to experience the awe and mystery of:



"Michelle's..... After Narcissistic Abuse"

After repeated communications with Michelle notifying her of ethics violations for the use of writing that belongs to others, she has responded by.........
Drum roll please.
Not doing a goddamn thing outside of turning her Narcissist survivors for Christ goon squad on the bloggers that insist that they be properly credited for their work.
Her henchmen commenced a campaign of slander against these authors, as well as giving their e-mail addresses to spamers and Nigerian bank fraud perpetrators in retaliation for asking that their work be properly cited or deleted.
The author's work was denounced as having no value. Even as she refused to take it off her site.
But with the right amount of feel good platitudes, the end can justify the means.
All platitudinal smarm comes compliments of the ANA site. I am merely re-posting it without her permission. Just like she did to get it there.
Here is a good example of Michelle's philosophy and unshakable morals.


Atta girl Michelle. But practice what you preach. 
Luv.... you talk the talk but you ain't walking the walk. 
It's ever so nice that your altruistic nature shines like a beacon in the night
 to guide the great unwashed to your island of Christian teachings.


Be careful what you ask for Michelle.



Her bastard boyfriend yanked the covers over her head and made her savor every whiff !!
Like writing a post of your own.

Visit her face book page and you will see why she steals her content from others. After she was admonished about thievery, she spent a week peppering her stolen posts with words of her own.
Such as this.

Proximity, in child custody with a narcissist, should NOT be a question when both parents can behave themselves. With a narcissist, that point is rendered MUTE by the very fact, that narcissists CANT BEHAVE THEMSELVES.

I'll just let that one stand alone.

Narcissism is a broad spectrum of behaviors. On a scale of 1 - 10, Healthy Narcissism is a one, and Pathological Narcissism, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, (NPD) is a 10.

One gooooooood. 10 baaaaaaaad





It is very typical for a target to feel the following feelings:
CONFUSED
SELF LOATHING
SELF BLAMING
NOT BEING ABLE TO DISTINGUISH WHO WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT (Severe boundary issues)
UTTERLY SAD
LOST
HOPELESS
LIED TO, CHEATED & BETRAYED
CRIPPLED EMOTIONALLY (as an injury)
SUFFERING FROM PTSD (which in itself has a whole host of symptoms: intense fear, nightmares, reliving the pain, great sense of having no future, impending doom)
TOXICALLY DUMPED UPON
UNSAFE
NOT BEING ABLE TO TRUST – NOT KNOWING WHO CAN BE TRUSTED – NOT TRUSTING YOURSELF
CRISIS LIKE NEED FOR RELIEF, UNDERSTANDING, VALIDATION AND SUPPORT


I believe it was Sigmund Freud that first hypothesized the "utterly sad syndrome" and his protege Carl Jung identified the "Toxic-ally dumped upon" complex.

LAZY POLICE, WANTING US TO BRING THEM IRREFUTABLE EVIDENCE OF ABUSE, IS NOT OUR JOBS as victims of domestic violence. We're going to TELL THE TRUTH, Bring you as many facts as we can, and if the rogue cops arent LAZY & MISOGYNISTIC, then THEYLL INVESTIGATE the crimes & put these predatory perpetrators behind bars, where they belong! 


Yes! 
Women should be able to send a man to prison with the wave of a hand. 
It's not like a woman has ever ....ya' know .......
lied.


I am in the process of putting together a type of crisis response team – and to make resources available to provide an immediate band-aid to triage our wounded. Please know in advance, I send up an open and infinite prayer to God that you receive hope & protection immediately – that you feel his presence and loving arms around you – so that you know you are not invisible, ignored, nor alone.




If your boyfriend tells you it isn't the dress that makes your ass look fat 
CALL OUR CRISIS RESPONSE TEAM IMMEDIATELY

I am sure this will sound like I have some vendetta against this chick. And you would be right. She could have cited her sources. And that would have been the end of it. Instead she turned her zombie like followers on the people who questioned her ethics.
 I am fortunate to have found a place on the internet.
 I feel it is my duty to expose people who's actions do not live up to their words.
Here is the compassion you can expect from the people who hover over "After Narcissistic Abuse."

 I just read your accusation on their page about stealing your posts. To be honest you sound more like a narcissist yourself than a victim. And as far as people stealing what you write....it's the internet. If you put it on here people can steal it so get over it.

A fine example of Christ like thinking.
Hey JC!
The Romans have you nailed to a cross. It happens. Get over it.
So her followers know she is a thief.  Michelle put a call to arms out and they all heeded the new messiah's word.

Michelle. I have hired a celebrity spokesman to deliver a message to you.

11 comments:

Calibans Sister said...

Q you ROCK. Yeah Baby! 1 Gooood 10 Baaaaad.
We have to give you an action-hero avenger name for exposing this ridiculous self-righteous plagiarizing fraud for who she is. I'll think about floating a few by you. For now, can it be Captain Q?

q1605 said...

Luv....call me anything you want except late for dinner.
A part of me really hesitates to call a fellow abused person out on their shit.
Do I really know what she has been through? Have I walked in her shoes?
Of course not.
But the way she responded to Lisette from the "House of Mirrors" is textbook NPD.
Smoke, mirrors. Obstinate and confusing e-mails. Sending her faithful followers out to seek revenge.
She is like the Jim Jones of the internet.
I don't know how to put a link in my post without just posting the whole link. I mean you know how you can click on a highlited word and it takes you to the site? I don't know how.
But check on my blog list and you will find it there and you can read the facts that I just danced around.

Kara said...

If you go to edit post, the click on link it gives you a mini screen where it gives you the option of what text to display on the link. Hope it helps.

q1605 said...

Thank you Kara.
If there is a way to eff it up, you can count on me to do so.
If you see a story about the power grid in the southwestern United States seizing up like rusty chain saw, I'll be posting again after I set up camp in Mexico.
Does Mexico have an extradition treaty with the US?
I better check in to that.

Lisette said...

Q, this is hysterical! Thank you for exposing/mocking the deluded little air head. The Emerson quote is right on. And the image of the woman with her arms spread?! And the accompanying text?! LMAO!! What's truly funny is that all this stuff and those genius (insert sarcasm) musings on NPD appear for real on that campy Facebook page... Or maybe it isn't so funny, considering people are eating this shit up whole - for real.

Way to bust an "online" move! John Stewart has nothing on you.

Calibans Sister said...

Actually, Q, I think this may be one of your comic masterpieces. Lisette is correct. The Jon Stewart of the blog world. The juxtapositions are great. Bust that move baby!

Lisette said...

Can you pleeez make this a regular feature on your blog?! A weekly/monthly round-up of the best of the worst of the ANA farcebook? That place is a gold mine of the ludicrous and nothing drives the point home better than satire.

Oh! Shit! Gotta go... I broke a nail and IMMEDIATELY called ANA's crisis response team and they've sent in a chopper!

Calibans Sister said...

and while you're at it, how bout a monthly pastiche parody of the Daily Strength? But that would require you to spend more time there, and I wouldn't wish that on my friend Captain Q.

q1605 said...

Yes I will. And I also want to announce a mud wrestling event for all the women. Winner gets a three day cruise with Captain Q. The loser gets a week long cruise with Captain Q.

Adela Alba said...

You know, I'm no Christian, but I'm pretty sure there was something in the Bible about stealing and lying being BAD.

Just because something is on the internet doesn't make it public domain, copyright still applies. What a bitch.

A complaint could probably be made to Facebook about the content being stolen and they might shut her down.

q1605 said...

Michelle has mastered the art of do as I say, not as I do.