Monday, January 7, 2013

One of these days




Barbara Delores Wilkinson
March 13 1933 - October 2 2012
Barbara Wilkinson, born in 1933 in Wylie Texas, left this world on October 2nd 2012.
Barbara will be met in the afterlife by her cuckolded husband, Durwood Donn Wilkinson, and the wives of all the men she slept with and whose lives and marriages she destroyed. Also awaiting her arrival is her first husband Leslie Hart, whom she drove to suicide on Sept 2nd 1973, as well as Joe C. Williams, the man she lured to her house on November 4th 1967 so that her lover Bill Jobe could have him lean on a bullet and take the slack out of his rope before emptying the pockets of his stiffening corpse and dumping him on the side of the road.
She is survived by her daughter, son, and one grand child.
Barbara had no hobbies, made no contribution to society, never held a job, and rarely shared a kind word or deed. I speak for her flesh and blood when I tell you that her presence will not be missed. No tears will be shed, and there will be no lamenting over her passing.
Since our mother's only past time is joining forces with any person that hates and betrays her family, the blood relatives were denied access
to traditional services at her time of death. Just as she denied her children the chance to attend the services of our father in 1973.
There will only be memories of sad and troubling times. We may have some fond memories, and perhaps we will think of those times. But at the end of the day, All of us will only miss is what we never had, a good and kind mother and grandmother. I hope she is finally at peace. For those of us left behind, may this be the beginning and a time of healing and learning to be a family again. 


GOOD BYE, MOM.

31 comments:

Pronoia Agape said...

Ding dong is the right "lament".

I'm... happy... for you. No other way to feel.

She's done her worst. That's it.

And you're still alive. And all right people, the two of you.

Amazing.

jessie said...

You did good with this post, Q.

I'm hoping this is a new beginning for you and Sis and wishing you both the best going forward.

q1605 said...

Thanks guys. It's weird to feel a bunch of nothing about your own mother. It's been two days and as my thought's focus I realize there just isn't anything there.
How can you miss someone who's sole purpose in life was to destroy you.
I feel a weight lifting from me. I am starting to feel like I did before I grew up.

q1605 said...

Ya'know? None of the people who cluck at me and sis now, never had to pay the dues we did. They were never groomed to testify in a murder trial that a guilty verdict would have taken their mother away for decades. Listen to gunshots and screams.
They just see some mean letters and rank me as some sick fuck that deserves more of the same. And are ready willing and able to continue my mothers legacy of hate and hardship on those she left behind.

Texarkana Friend said...

I'm glad to hear the weight is lifting from you, Q. The earth itself is breathing a sigh of relief that your "mother" expired, I'm sure.

Can I use this obit when the time comes? I would have to make only a few changes, the primary one being about all the lovers. My mother just tended to make men shrivel up.

Here's to your better, happier future!

mulderfan said...

Well done! May she rest in pieces.

You and Sis not only made it out alive, you're what folks here call "good people".

High five and pow!

Anonymous said...

Great stuff, Q! Right to the point. Yes, I haven't felt anything but relief myself. Before this week I thought I might have felt something else, but nope. I feel like I have been in a jail cell my whole life and just realized the guard is gone and the door is wide open! I can't tell you how awful it is to have a mother who at the same time hates you but expects you to kiss her ass at all times and was never happy about how you did it. Thanks to everyone for the good wishes!

Sis

Anonymous said...

"May she rest in pieces."

Classic! My husband who never says anything bad about anyone, which can very irritating at times, lol. He just read the letter I got today which is identical to Q's from Saturday, and he said, "well she's with the devil now. If anyone is in Hell she is." And he's a Catholic and I've never heard him talk like that. :O The way she did this deal took the guilt monkey off our backs and put it on the ex wife. I hope she enjoys it as much as we have.

Sis

Bess said...

Here's to a free existence!

q1605 said...

Our mother gave a bit of money up front when she first sold the land. After that my life turned to complete shit. I mean I did some stupid things but there was more going on than my stupidity. I mean my stupidity knows no bounds but a blind hog finds an acorn every now and again.
I think sis was OK after but I would have just as soon never had any money if it is cursed.
My point being that if it fucks up my ex's life like it did mine she's going to have a tiger by the tail.
It's really strange that we have a reverse sort of wake after the death of a parent.
I think I'll be to breath again.
I was thinking that the blog experience might be over for me now but I keep finding my self coming in and tapping away.

vicariousrising said...

Man, I hope the blog experience isn't over for you. You were one of the first ACoN blogs I started commenting on when I realized there were others out there with mothers like mine.

That said, I'm glad that you are feeling able to breathe again. Thank god almighty, you're free at last.

upsi said...

anyone who ranks you as a sick fuck is not my kind of people. fuck the sheltered haters.

q1605 said...

Yowsah!

q1605 said...

Tex Friend. Knock yourself out. I used this as a template for what I wrote.
https://groups.google.com/forum/?fromgroups=#!topic/alt.obituaries/uQ083wY3f4g

Anonymous said...

Q, you are right on about the money thing. After we got the money I got laid off at my job as an art director, the whole plant got shut down. I couldn't find another job I liked at all. Wound up not working for a year and a half, and of course had to dig into that money to survive. Meanwhile, because of the money, I felt obligated to talk to her everytime she called me. And at times she called me literally every day when I wasn't working. Draining, life sucking phone calls. I noticed that the more I talked to her the worst I felt, totally depressed. She was brainwashing me like a cult. Then I found the job I have now, thank God!! She kept telling me I shouldn't take the job, I should stay home like her. Of course, then she'd have her captive audience for phone calls. I took the job and she didn't call as much after that, maybe once every few months. I got my life back.

Sis

q1605 said...

It's tainted. She has coveted that farm all her life. Never did a thing to keep it. Left it to the rest of us to maintain. And got it and sold it as soon as someone waved some cash in front of her face.
If I/we got paid by the hour for all the work I/we did there and was paid minimum wage I/we would have come out far better.

q1605 said...

I hope it sinks that cheap slut like rock.
Mom knows about all that shit we got divorced over.
And how she took me to the bank during the divorce.
That's WHY she gave her the cash.
How sick can you get?
Reward a person you hate for screwing your son over.

Anonymous said...

oh yes!
She thinks money is the cake, money is just the icing. Life itself is the cake.


Sis

q1605 said...

You can gloss over a murder and a suicide but little things are what finally sinks the boat.
Like neither of your kids went to either of their parents funeral.
That's no accident.

vicariousrising said...

Oh you didn't go to the funeral because you're an ULB.

q1605 said...

Shush yo mouf.

Anonymous said...

or like the time she refused to get out of her car at our granny's funeral while we sat outside at the graveside waiting for her with 40 people in 18 degree weather.

Sis

q1605 said...

I don't know why these people don't put their kids up for adoption.
I guess they won't have pinata fodder if they do.

Anonymous said...

I would have had more respect for them if they had put us up for adoption or had our granny raise us as her kids. That would have been a win/win/win situation. Granny always wanted more kids. They didn't want any kids. We would have been raised by a loving person without being subjected to them.

Sis

q1605 said...

I would have had more respect for them if they had tossed me into a dumpster on the way home from the hospital.
We were just props to make themselves look normal to outsiders.

Gladys said...

This whole thing is just so incredibly fucked up.

I'm just SO SORRY, Q and Sis.

This kind of behavior is so beyond what is 'normal', what is HUMAN.

So fucked up.

q1605 said...

There are only two people on the earth that doesn't get what sorry motherfuckers they look like and one of them is dead.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Gladys and everyone else for the kind words! She always took everything too far. It wasn't enough to be a bitch, she had to be the Uber Bitch. Everything she did was so over the top it she always made her self look like an idiot. She probably left her money to the one person she knew who wouldn't do the right thing, I think 99% of people would say, "uh, gee, this is evil and vindictive and I want no part in it". If someone tried to get me to play the other half of the villian role like this I wouldn't have any part of it. My soul and conscience are worth more to me than money.

Sis

q1605 said...

I divorced that bitch for a reason. Unfortunately what the general population sees as abhorrent behavior, my mother saw as commendable actions.

q1605 said...

How was Vegas?

Adela Alba said...

Her tombstone should read:

Barbara Delores Wilkinson
Born March 13 1933
On October 2 2012 nothing of value was lost.