If you say they didn't pay for your college, people will tell you that you should do what everybody else does and get a part time job, and a student loan. This is a valid suggestion and exactly what I did. But they never hear the things like how they told a potential spouse you are a serial cheater and she breaks up with you and she happens to be grand daughter of a Rockefeller and went on to inherit a bazillion dollars .
The Narc is only about making your business their business.
And you almost bought Apple stock when it was initially offered but didn't because the narc didn't want a son that was a worthless fruit peddler. A job in telecommunications was dismissed as an exercise in soup cans and kite string. But when that industry becomes the wave of the future you don't hear about how they talked you out of it, people only hear how they recognized the potential and tried to talk you into pursuing a career but you were too stupid, lazy, and undisciplined to take the bull by the horn. And little by little by little they become parasites that get a foothold in your brain and change your body chemistry until you are just a puppet whose main focus is to make you forget about your own survival in lieu of perpetuating theirs.
They don't want you to pursue anything that you want to pursue. They don't like your job, they don't like your spouse, they don't like your house, they don't like anything about you. And they are ready willing and able to tell anybody that will listen, exactly what your short comings are. So you've got people listening to your story and judging you on data provided by a vacuous bore that looks at your life like a dog looks at a page from a calculus book.
As me and another blogger wonder, why do they get such a death grip as we leave, when they obviously hate our guts.
And when you consider how to them the world is one huge popularity contest their meddling ways make us seem as disjointed as a politician explaining why he was caught with a dead girl AND a live boy.
They want credit for our victories but trash us if we run up a blind alley. And they are notoriously stupid .......if I could go back in time I would do the exact opposite of everything my mother told me to do. What the fuck did she know?
She died at the age of 80 and had never held a job or drove a car she paid for herself. Every house, car, and stitch of clothing came from some sucker she conned and fucked until he couldn't see straight. Yet she second guessed every thing I ever tried to accomplish. She had a stroke and my wife visited her and she told her to give me a message to take women to her house and screw them anytime I wanted. This need to sabotage was not a personalty change from her stroke. She was like this her whole life.