God it's like Ollie made this video for me.
Since my mother died, I still try to figure out if there was some way to have made her done the right thing and treated us better. She had 80 years to make it right, but after I went NC she never picked up a phone. Not to call me. She called a lot of my the friends she had numbers for that she took off her caller I.D. ........but not me. It's like my sister says. Making her do the right thing would be to move all the sand on all the beaches in the world with nothing but a toy shovel. After all that my mother did to destroy us as a family, and the multitude of promises from our grandmother that we would get the proceeds from our farm. She dies and leaves us $100 each. Checks that remain uncashed to this day. Cashing her checks would be tantamount to a whore taking crumbs from her pimp after the republican convention left town. And the rest she left to my cheating first wife. You just can't win with them. There are just varying degrees of loss.