Sunday, March 27, 2016

The Bobbsey Twins

My ex wife and my mother were a real pair of Queens. So I'm sitting here and thinking about how my ex took me to the cleaners in our divorce. Forget my mother was busting a nut transferring everything we own to her preferred daughter. I have left something out in all of the my ex charging up my credit cards and how my ex called them in stolen so I couldn't use them and it dawned on me that I have left out one little detail of my exes skulduggery.
She had my drivers license number, my social security number AND my first name was a popular girls name in the fifties. I imagine she listened in and knew my security questions and since they would be expecting a woman to be talking to them there was no need to dig very deep to make sure the person on the phone was the person on the account. I can still call in with much less info than she had back then, and do a lot of damage. My ex even transferred my few frequent flier miles to herself. All I know is by the time we went to court I didn't have anything left in my name.
The bobbsey twins below:
Null and Void
She said ; I don't care about anyone else but me.
I-don't'-care-about-anyone-or-anything-but-me

13 comments:

Five Hundred Pound Peep said...

So wonder they got so buddy-buddy, they were very much alike. Realize in "normal world" well if there is one, a decent parent would have some loyalty to their own child and not take up with an ex-spouse. I hate that art work, you know fashion is pushing narcissism every minute.

Judith said...

My ex left me with a $3,000 tax bill, so I'm feeling like I got off lucky.

q1605 said...

It's the goddamn entitlement that gets me. It's like I stole from her instead of the other way around. Thinking back on how she acted during the divorce. It's that projection thing. They are looking for ever way to get money from you so they think you are doing that to them. There was one conversation when it became apparent I had reported all my earnings from my glass shop and she got this confused sound in her voice and said you really aren't making much up there are you? And then she told me how she figured I was making money hand over fist and hiding it anywhere I could get it and her not find it. Of course it didn't stop her from robbing me. it didn't even slow her down.

q1605 said...

Yeah peep the comparison I always use is that even the mothers of serial killers defend the actions of their kids. My mother would have paid for the drugs to have me put down. All the qualities of a dog except for loyalty.

q1605 said...

I think the thing is she knew she was old and death was near and she knew that I knew everything about her. So the more she sold me out the less credibility I would have if her name ever came up. If she hadn't burned me so bad I wouldn't have had much bad to say. It's the way she left me and sis that got me talking about her so much.

Joan S said...

I know for me that I could never stand up for myself. If I was in your position, the same would have happened, just that we didn't have anything. And I know how those women are when they get together, that strange relationship they have, its a snake pit. It was a very difficult position for you to be in, impossible I would say for any acon.

q1605 said...

Sorry peep it just is such a good example of how their mind works (on the artwork) Especially how my mother lured that guy first to a motel and then to our house.

q1605 said...

Judith it was still worth it to be shed of her conniving ass.

q1605 said...

From what I can tell my mother and my ex had been working me for years and then laughing at what a chump I am. If trusting your wife and mother makes you chump then I guess I'm a chump. I am pretty sure they had been doing this shit for years. The divorce brought it all to a head but looking back they had been buddies brought together by screwing me for years.

q1605 said...

If I have to become a dirty rotten scoundrel to protect my self from a dirty rotten scoundrel it's not worth it. They can sit home like Gollum and talk to their precious money.

Five Hundred Pound Peep said...

The entitlement is sickening, my sociopath mother has it too, and by the way she kept buddy buddy with every ex in the family pantheon, including my cousin's ex wife. She made a scapegoat of brother's ex but even had a time where she kissed her butt and was buying her off and I caught her secretly visiting her when the ex moved to our state for a short time. Oh this pisses me off, my nephews lived only 50 miles from me then, but I never saw them because I was "not allowed to have the address or the phone number" and I caught her right before the ex moved out of state going there, and she flat out lied about it. Yeah it sounds like she played games to get every dime from you and claiming you hid money. Yeah she was playing games while robbing you. I never saw my father's or grandmother's will. I wonder how many she ripped off completely.

Speaking of the mothers of serial killers, I told my husband watching the real life murder investigation show--not the one on mainstream TV but the one where they go through the investigations and arrests of young often teen murderers, I told my husband it boggled my mind how the killer's mothers would show up and hug them and be like "Tell the truth" and all this. One got really lovey dovey with her three times murdering kid, and it blew my mind. If I got arrested for jay walking or anything as a teen, they would have had the book thrown at me.

Hey I was a chump too, don't feel bad. These types know how to lie and do it well. That's why she got the family and not me. There's plenty of co-narcs and enablers there helping them out. It's better we didn't turn dirty and rotten, I saw nice people corrupted to the max by these narcs. Even someone I once considered a great friend, turned on me on a dime when a narc entered the room.

q1605 said...

My ex was the worst. In hindsight. She would orchestrate weeks of loving behavior just so her mother( who wouldn't let my ex go on vacation with them because she thought we needed to stay home and fix our problems) and after she got to go just turned around and was a bigger bitch than ever. The ex kissed my ass for weeks just for a week end in Mexico. Her mother didn't even pay our way. It's not like we got a free ride. We payed our own air fare and room and board. I never did figure that one out.

Five Hundred Pound Peep said...

Sounds like she was tied by the apron strings definitely, why couldn't you just go to Mexico by yourselves. She must have been a GC herself.